When I got up, she had left a nice text telling me when my daughter's class was. Then she called and was all cheery asking me to bring my son's basketball shirt with me (his game is after my daughter's class). She asked if I was going to our daughter's class, I said yes, she was upbeat and said "Ok, see you there."
When I got there, she had bought a donut and coffee for me. She had her uber kindly act going, and it's convincing, let me assure you. She knows I melt in response to it. She looked great too.
She didn't say anything about mediation or my request. She did ask about our schedule around Thanksgiving and was agreeable to my requests.
She did say we could get together to talk, tentatively this evening. The thing is, what do I say? The whole point of insisting on getting the separation done was because she didn't respect my boundary of not living in an open marriage. Should I reiterate it as the reason for my insistance on getting the separation done? What if she says she has or will end it with OM? Do I yield then, at least on the separation point? Or do I say "Too late, I'm done, I just want to get this over with."
