Coping with Bi-Polar WAW

[CountingCrows]

Well, W's finances or lack thereof are starting to catch up with her. She got so behind on her "secret phone" texting to OM so much that now she can't afford to reactivate it. She called today from another number and said she'd be using this new number at least until after Christmas when she would hopefully be able to afford to get on a new plan. Pretty sure that OM is providing her the loaner phone, but don't know for sure. Don't really care, as long as I'm not financially supporting her affair anymore.

This means that I no longer have access to her call records anymore, and quite frankly, I feel relieved. It was VERY hard to not to check her logs several times a day, and it pained me every time to see how much they were communicating from first thing when they wake up until their "goodnight"s in the wee hours of the morning. The occasional gaps from the time W got off work until texting resumed made me feel even worse. This is just another step towards detachment, which I know will be good for me.

I've got all the call records from both of her phones captured to file and safely tucked away on a couple of storage devices, in case a future need for them ever comes up.