Another thing you can count on Future. If she's interested she's going to be testing you relentlessly. These little tests comes in various forms so be on the lookout. The reason? To latch you back onto plan B. Hold the line.
Test: You don't love me anymore. Test: You won't be able to forgive me Test: Do you still love me?
Standard responses until she can PROVE there is no more OM:
- I'm not sure. - I'll need to think about that. - I don't know.
and then add, "I just feel like I don't know you anymore."
Test: You aren't my friend anymore. Resp: You can't say that. Friends come in many different ways and forms.
Test: Why are you being so mean? Resp: I'm not being mean. I'm giving you what you asked for.
Test: How could you do this to me? Resp: Do what? Her : Blah... blah... blah... Resp: I'm sorry you feel that way. I just need some space to enjoy my life.
Prep yourself. Memorize The Four C's. If you can, share some of your feelings without guilting her (It's hard, I know...)
For anyone else reading this, don't forget, this is a last resort. The goal is still to get her back... but this time she has to work for it.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT