New here, this is my story...

[Gardener]

HelpMe,

So; how many people out there, who get a divorce, want the process to go slowly?

Conflicted, unsure people?

Give me some feedback. I am starting to be resolved about this divorce, but I still don't want it. I am out of hope, but I can continue to have patience. Can anyone tell me their opinion on this?

Wish I could, HelpMe. My sitch is a little bit similar (sign in yard, house being shown). But STBXW has cut off ALL contact except at mediator's office (and when she wants something). I don't want D, but I also certainly don't want the person she's become in the last year, either. I've lost interest in whoever the heck she is. I don't want D because we never really worked on our problems at all (despite 13 visits with sham MC). Sometimes she looks like she can't wait to have this over with (most of the time), sometimes I think I see a face that's saying "Somebody STOP this!" Both are assumptions, so probably both are wrong.

Death by toothpick indeed. (A good line, actually)

Sorry I wasn't much help.