Yes, please do be careful about opening up to other women right now. I know you only have good intentions but you can see how easily that may be misconstrued or lead to an unexpected EA.

A while back a friend came to me to discuss issues he was having in his marriage because he knew what I had been/was going through with BF. After the initial conversation I told him I was available to talk whenever he needed. He thanked me for the offer but said it was probably best if he didn't because he might fall into an EA with me. That hadn't even occurred to me but he was right, so we agreed no more talking about our respective relationships.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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