He was surprised when I told him I was developing an attachment to him (this after I expressed to him months ago that I'd like to reconcile).
If you feel this way, then stop showing attraction, affection. Look great but non-committal. He'll want what he can't have. Read DR. Everything you must do will be counter-intuitive to what you think you should do. have.
Originally Posted By: mar1713
Our s wants us back together and I feel like that gets his hopes up too, and maybe that's not so good for him either?
OVERdoing it (as you describe)? Very confusing to s. False hope, mixed signals, disappointment.
Originally Posted By: mar1713
tonight we're supposed to go to a reception party, I think he's still coming to that since we RSVP's a few weeks ago and it's a big party. Not really sure how to act...like everything is fine? Do my own thing at the party? or stand with him as my date? Ugh...any ideas?
Look fabulously gorgeous. Do your own thing. Walk in with him then go mingle and have a blast! He'll be watching. my $.02, fwiw.
I'll stand back now and let wiser men - and the ladies - give ya some really good advice
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
