I assume at this point that the trouble-free, hot and sexy gf is the better option. Don't know how/if affair will end. Want him to know that I am approachable for reconciliation (when affair ends) without having to start with hours of crying and recrimination.
Avermont. Sometimes its just better to leave the light on but the door locked. Do not let him know you are approachable for reconciliation. That is something he needs to learn and earn.
How was your week? I hope you have kept up with your reading.