I agree with Arwen except the "drama queen" statement. My Q is this--why would HR care if they are having an affair? They would care if he is doing drugs.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004