Arwen_In_NJ: I just want to say thanks for your post. Even in the hour or so it's been posted and replied to I actually feel better.

Re-reading the article on detachment has helped to. I think I will need to read this a lot more often.

Anyway, thanks.

Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"