You are going to take something you heard from a 3rd party (gossip), that you don't even know is true,
I've not made myself clear. I haven't taken anything from a third party. What I do know is that W and OM worked at the same company and for the same Union. That is a fact.
What I said was that a third party told me that maybe he was going for a job where my W works (which was the company he last worked for anyway just a different location). That doesn't alter the fact that the A was work related and Union related. That is a fact.
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It can't look like anything BUT being petty and vindictive. Which it is.
It was advice on here earlier to inform the W's employer if it was a work based A, which this is. That's all I was getting back to. I think it was PDT who said it (although if he didn't I apologise).
So it was two workplace based affairs - they were both Union reps (workplace) and they both worked for the same place (workplace). That was it.
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Where you such drama queen in your M? Could this be one of the issues your W had with you?
I'm sorry you see me as a drama queen. I'm in a tough place just now emotionally for all sorts of reasons and I'm scrambling around again because my emotions are getting the better of me. The only place I am venting these emotions, ideas or suggestions is here. I haven't texted, called or contacted W in any way. So I see this as a safe place.
If my letters succeed in OM not getting a job then great. Maybe he'll get lost a lot quicker and I can try and patch up my M. I don't see them not giving somebody a job because they were having an A - most people seem to think it's regular part of life nowadays (and every second person seems to have one). I see it as informing her work and her Union of the situation that was created. As I said, it was advice given here earlier.
I also know little about the issues the W had with the marriage. She's yet to tell me.
What I'm not going to do is apologise for having a bad day. I would rather post here and get some advice, get a 2x4 to the head, and think about it, than go ahead and just do it. Drama queen or no drama queen.
