Today I went to an al-anon meeting in the morning, and W said she was going to spend the morning/afternoon with a classmate. We are meeting around 4pm to have dinner with D17 for her belated birthday and shopping.
When I got home from Al-anon, I discovered that she had used my computer to copy the tax records and my business records, burn them to CD, and access a file with our names and the word legal in it. That file is gone. She had tried to hide what she had done by moving the copied files into the trash, but had forgotten to clear the history in the word processor and adobe pdf reader. From the timestamps, she did all this while was gone at al-anon this morning. I'm lucky, I accidentally deleted a file and went to get it out of the trash and saw what she had been up to.
She is leaving tuesday morning for her parents for thanksgiving, so I'm presuming she would try to serve me before she leaves town.
I'm really mad now! I'm supposed to go shopping with her in a few hours.
How should I handle this?!?!?! Just wait till she does something, or should tell her I know what is going on? Maybe she is just protecting herself, but trying to hide it make me thinks she is hoping to surprise me with it.
Help!
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