IRMAC, I am sorry you experienced being a WAS in your first marriage. You were very young and probably very naive. The fact that you asked him for forgiveness is such a blessing. Everyone deserves forgiveness when repentence is present. I don't see a lot of repentence in these ML'ers.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11