Hey Trixie,

we are doing really well, thanks.

I guess what I'd wonder is what will it do for you if you do let him know? What do you see when you picture it in your head? Do you need/want/expect a particular response from him, or is it really something that you feel will help you move on?

Am wondering...what will you feel if he says don't? Will that change things for you?

As to whether or not you owe it to him to tell him...hmmmm...I guess I'm not exactly sure how things stand with you guys now. If that was something you agreed to do, then go for it. But if you are in the same limbo where he is doing his thing/you are doing your thing, then I'd say you don't owe it to him.

But again, its what feels right to you.

good luck! will be pulling for you. you deserve peace, love, and happiness.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher