OK gang, Well I'm off to GAL by myself.... Can't find anyone to do anything with me, kids are busy, and I'll be damned if I'm gonna sit in this house waiting to see if H graces me with his presence on a Friday night. No idea what I will do, but that's not the point. I'm dressed to the nines and I'll find something....
Have fun Rocked!! and here I was having a bummer moment, came here for a ray of hope and found it in you. Thx hon. =) Im off to watch 8 Legged Freaks now. ( love that movie)
I think it was a successful GAL evening. Did some shopping, browsed the book store, took my S18 out for sushi, popped in to visit my brother and SIL.
H got home about two hours before me and was calling my cellphone... worried where I was? "Oh, just out..." I replied "Oh?" "Yeah, oh shoot, gotta another call comin' gotta go see ya at home!"
Came home about 40 min. later. H's been real chatty and friendly. Heheheh... And, I had a good time too!
...oh ya... almost forgot. H had also brought my favorite coffee home, which waited for 2 hrs. til I got home..lol... then after telling me about his day asked, "so did you go out and look for a boyfriend tonight?" "yup" I said without missing a beat "did you find one?" H asked "yup" I said and while continuing to type on my laptop, never looking up. "hmph. you probably did" H said. Didn't say much after that. lol
Rdw what would you feel like if you did sit at home on a friday?
detachment is about how one feels with themselves.
Sorry if this offends you. It was not my intent. I understand how difficult this is. And I know how we are both going through this at the same time and we are the same age. So I am looking for support on these concepts.
Anyways, this is what friends are for...... I hope you just found yourself a little more.
Hi Cutter, I am not offended at all. I am more than ok with myself to sit home on a Friday night. The problem for me is that I am on a leave from work due to all the stress of this sitch and am home a lot. I really needed to get out and GAL. I needed to do that for me. If it got a reaction... all the better. Also - I have tended to be a bit of a homebody... mostly because of my focus being on raising the kids all these years, so going out (especially by myself) is a 180 behavior for me.
Did you have a good evening out? I have gone out the last 2 nights in a row and going out tonight again. Its been a fun few days. With some heavy talk tossed in for good measure.
