Hi Cutter,
I am not offended at all.
I am more than ok with myself to sit home on a Friday night. The problem for me is that I am on a leave from work due to all the stress of this sitch and am home a lot. I really needed to get out and GAL. I needed to do that for me. If it got a reaction... all the better.
Also - I have tended to be a bit of a homebody... mostly because of my focus being on raising the kids all these years, so going out (especially by myself) is a 180 behavior for me.