Life is funny. I had been thinking I needed some relief from my sitch if even just for a brief day or 2. And boy did I get it. I can relate it to a joke I heard many moons ago. Abridged version. A man finds a genie lamp. He rubs it and the genie comes out and grants him 1 wish. The man ponders for a moment and says he wants his schlong to touch the ground. Poof... The man's legs were gone. You have to know exactly what you want when asking and know it and express it explicitly with no grey areas or fuzziness. It is also true to say it is all relative...one mans nightmare might be Good compared to anothers.