Avermont, my post over in divorced but not done, so you can read the sordid details there if you wish.
I'm still struggling with the whole GAL stuff, it's working for me so I suppose that's a good thing. I think you need to do it for you and not with the goal of getting your H back they can see through that. Having said that though the happier, more content and so on that I become the more my H seems to retreat, get defensive and spiteful. Not sure where to go from there.
