D has known since day after filing, she said mom walked away from Skype where she was talking to the 18yr old friend i had mentioned in an earlier post and wife didn't delete the im's.
She's kept it to herself, that she knew wife had filed. D even knew about the court date a couple of wks ago. Dang IT!!!
I wouldn't have known but saw her xmas list laying out and asked why she wanted to redo the basement where all my autographs were and she said dad, I know what's going on and it's sad to see that stuff on the wall.
Wife said "said I don't know, I don't want to talk about it." When D asked her about it. Wife hasn't talked to her about it since then.
D wants to talk to wife about going back to a counselor. I've told D about part of the situation her mom's going thru, and said until mom gets thru this, we need to have faith, hope and love.
I told D there isn't going to be an aha moment in any of this, that i need to be strong for her and S.
We know teens, she's going to say something to mom.
D knows I'm on this site now, she's known I was reading DB books, cause snoop found them and I told her I had found people who are trying to help the 3 of us, there isn't anything we can do for mom until she herself or someone talks her thru what she feeling.
If I had any idea, I would've gotten the kids into cnslg sooner, as it is on Thursday I had asked atty about cnslg for kids and she said after the holidays, but my side had no idea D knew what was going on.
So of course now D is picking sides and this might explain why wife is telling me D is lying to her all the time and playing us both, too funny, didn't i email that oh i don't know back in September. Funny I say it she doubts it, she says it, it's true. But I'm telling you wifes' attitude towards kids sux.
