Finally found them together, now what??

[newmama]

Wow, I am really impressed that you have gone dark and into a plan B so soon, avoiding her phone calls! It is hard for LBS to do that usually so the fact you did it right away is probably good! I have read of WASs coming clean and wanting their family when presented with such harsh(but necessary) circumstances.

So who babysat on Wed when you were gone? And do you have other evidence besides photos? I live in a no fault state, but imagine that photos may not be enough--unless they were kissing (sorry).

What do the kids know about the situation? Yes, you should tell OM's wife--not to be vindictive but because SHE DESERVES TO KNOW and it can help end the affair sooner.
keep us posted.