I'm trying to stay on the high road though it's mighty hard. I decided to send a response to his pissy email:
"I received the check yesterday. Thank you. This is not alimony yet. This is Temporary Support and Maintenance and I will do what is within my rights to protect myself financially. I'm sorry you feel otherwise".
I wanted to go on record thanking him for sending the money and at the same time try to set him straight about continuing to call it alimony.
My L emailed saying he and H's L decided we should "probably meet for a settlement conference". Gee, you think? You mean the settlement conference you two were supposed to plan in September and then I never heard from you again? He said H's L has not talked with H yet about his retirement fund. So this big phone conference they had today must have lasted all but 5 minutes.
On a GAL note - I saw Cirque Du Soleil tonight - freaking awesome.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10