Originally Posted By: bluerain

Even if you do demand answers, if there is an OM involved, she has this sort of fuzzy, warped view of what will happen when you and her go your seperate ways. She cant fully appreciate what it will mean... thats the whole idea of her being in a fog. She thinks that you are the obstacle to her happiness, and getting rid of you will free her up to be with OM.


I absolutely get what you're saying here. Good advice/insight.


Me 45 WAW 36
S8
T 15 M 12
Multiple PA's since 6/07
W moved out 10/25/09
I filed D 12/29/09
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