the process does hurt - - so true. and yes we have to go through it.. it is who we are. healing.. ugh.
ml'rs yes i believe they feel ... and when they feel they either face it or run deeper. my x admitted it last weekend.. he doesn't want to face it. so obviously, unlike me where it was heal or die..so i chose to heal.. he still has not hit that cross roads yet.
living -- that is what i choose. i miss him yes - but i can not die waiting..
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again