HB- I know how it feels. I do see now how hard it is going to be to get my W to see that she does not need to D to "go on her path"

Her C & friend is supporting her decision and like you said, it is almost like she does not want to let them down.

I have done well this last few days. I have not backslid and been constant in my actions and mood around W.

I am starting to understand detachment now. I still care, prepared to dig in my heals and fight, but I am also able to see that life will be ok if M does not work out, hard, but ok.

Thanks for your wishes, I am going to do my best and give it my all, then I can hand it over to God with the faith that the best outcome will prevail in the end.


M: 30
W: 32
Married: 9 years
s: 2.8
Bomb dropped: 7-10-09
same house, bed, no physical contact
My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1