Thanks PDT for giving me a different perspective on things. Hadn't really looked at these things I've done as victories...and you're right, I do still feel like $hit.
Tonight, it's been 4 weeks since I found out she was still in contact with OM. After reading your note above, I can at least see now that I've made some progress since that devastating night.
Me 45 WAW 36 S8 T 15 M 12 Multiple PA's since 6/07 W moved out 10/25/09 I filed D 12/29/09 Sitch