He is HEDGING. You are leaving him an out to come back and say.. "Well I told you I wasn't goin to promise you anything and now you are pressuring me again"
Tell him firmly and nicely that you TOO have been doing some thinking and since he told you he can make no promises that YOU HAVE decided that you are not going to make any either and that at this time then you think he should continue to think about things.
When a man loves a woman in the right way he WILL make promises. Ask the men on this site who lost their wives. Read their threads and see what THEY will do and say to their wives. THAT is how a man who is serious will respond to you.
