I still dont think GALing or anything I do is of interest to him. HE overheard a phone conversation about a group I joined that goes to events etc --I was RSVPing to a Comedy Club night and another event at a bar with music. He asked about what restaurants/bars have music. (He enjoys listening to live music) Not interested in what I was doing.
Well, I have tried to be dark but not succeeding very well. (o phone calls or text though--he contacts me if he needs to--very infrequently) Spent the day at his mother's (Grandpa died 2 weeks ago and she is all confused about finances and grandpa never threw out a shred of paper) So because I love her like my own mother I went down with H to help sort through reams of paper and organize office and finances. Friendly and light with H until end of ride home when I asked him about Thanksgiving which we are all going to for his mother's sake. After our C with DB C --H was on a kick to "be honest" with the kids and wanted to talk to our 25 year old daughter when she gets in from the South for the holiday. She had a awful week with her significant other literally cheating on her (too similar to her father for comfort) and has been in a terrible place then got very sick. Wanting to be sure she didnt get a dose of his 12 year old teen mentality, I casually asked what he was so gung ho to talk to her about as she was in a tender place. H
