Sounds like you are getting solid advice here. I just want to reinterate that you do NOT have control over your Dad's and H's sitch. Focus on what you DO have control over and that is yourself.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning