You and I AND our sitches have a lot in common. So similar that I cam imagine a lot of what you are going through. I'm just farther along in the process.
I'm happy to help. Feel free to post youir questions here, or let me know where you'll be.
As to patience and "the cat and mouse game" - I, much like you, found it was impossible until I had detached. Until then, I just couldn't pull it off. How did I detach? Not easily. I had to go through the phases.
Read some of by earlier threads - no detachment there.
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Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
