So my parents came into town today for the weekend. I was at work and H had the kids. Sure enough I had a gut feeling they would run into each other. And they did. My dad LOVES H to death, but is not very happy with him right now. Not at all. He is very upset that H walked out on us. So when they ran into each other my dad was not rude whatsoever but was not giving H the time of day. He was very timid towards him. Kind of yes, no answers. But not normal let's just say. So I'm at work, and H calls me crying. Saying he has just been so humiliated by my father. That he has never been more embarrassed. That his family is still so nice to me, inviting me to family functions treating me like I'm still a part of the family. And my dad treated him like crap. Now he was not rude, did not say anything offensive, was just kind of quiet holding in his fury with my H. He also said, "How are we ever going to have a chance to work on this if your dad treats me like that?" There is no way I'm coming home now!! I apologized for my father's behavior and told him he is just upset because he sees H like a son, and doesn't know how to act in this situation. I am now worried that this is the last straw. It seems like something keeps happening every single week. Yes he continues to get over it, but this time he was in tears. He admitted that this has nothing to do with me, I wasn't there, I am not them, but he also stated that he is not coming home. I told him my dad just wants him home and he said too bad, cause that ain't happening. I dont know what to do. I don't know what else to say to H. I'm scared to death that these things keep happening and sooner or later H isn't going to get over them like he has in the past. HELP!!!!!!!!
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
