I know it's hard and how are you able to act as a single mom for all of these years while he is abroad? Do you get breaks and help sometimes?

I have been separated almost 8 months...but planning things each week, even if it's just one day, really helps me to pass the time and try to GAL. During this holiday season the weeks are starting to fly by!!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004