Hi TIF, I hope you have a great weekend as well. My H is still waffling around alot too...I think to say we're in piecing is premature...I think our townhome is a convenient place for him to live but if he had the money to live on his own he would in a heartbeat-and that would probably be easier on me and the girls! Oh well. It is what it is..
I do like having him around when he's "normal" which is spotty at best! :-)
I think, like you, that detaching is key for our sanity. I think my imaginings of life without H are a way my brain is trying to get there...We'll see if it starts working!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.