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Don't mean to offend anyone-just offering a different point of view.




don't get me wrong dulcie,

You certainly didn't offend me at all.
I do know what it's like to not spend the day laughing and enjoying the company of your spouse but simply having sex.
but I also know what it's like to spend a pleasurable day with my spouse without the physical pleasure I'd like to come along with it.

sometimes getting an issue out in the open (especially the topic of physical intimacy) does little to change it..so then how would you suggest a person who wishes to have both an emotinal and physical r with someone who doesn't seem to know how too, change themselves to make those things present in the r while the lacking spouse coils from it?

LL