Advice on DB-ing when sep spouse lives at home

[kjensen]

Hi TIF-
Well the bus hasn't flattened you! So keep on moving. I have those dark days too,for me its where everything H says just grates on me-all so negative..and then he criticizes ME b/c my perception is different...

Try to keep expectations low or reasonable for the holidays so there's little disappointment. Got to be better than the year of the bomb-doesn't it? We're all so much stronger a year later, I think. christmas is my year anniversary for the bomb...can't wait! :-)