I am not sure his goal is to get you back. His goal is to get attention from you, either positive or negative. That is what they want at this time. He may say verbally that he wants you back, but his actions don't show it.

Every mid-lifer has a degree of narcissism in them. Narcissists feed off of attention, any kind. They will keep at you if you show them any reaction. They want and try to push your buttons. They get off on this.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11