Ok, thanks everyone. I will do just that. I am out to dinner with friends now so I won't talk to him again until tomorrow.

So, don't move back in, give me space, and keep him chasing. Gotcha.

Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month