Sorry to hijack your thread old buddy, but LL and I have been going at it for quite a while, although in reality we are supporting each other.
There are plenty of books, but as you can see by the frustrated DB'ers on this BB, not many solutions! Move out, file for D, then tell her what it would take for you to come home. If she doesn't go for it, be prepared to support her and the kids for the rest of your life, then good luck trying to find someone that wants sex all the time. If you do, find out if she has a sister for me!
Ask your W if she wants an "open" marriage, that you are interested in having sex with hookers, or finding someone that enjoys sex. If she agrees, go for it! But warn her, that someone might just steal your heart, and you will be gone!
LL, you are right, the whole thing is ridiculous! Nothing makes any sense! When do we get our reward???? In Heaven????
