Now, here is my question....do I let him come back to the spare room or back to our room?
Since you already said that he'll be there tomorrow nite and the next nite anyway, and that TONITE is the very first thing that is DIFFERENT, I would answer him:
"No. I'm not ready for that yet. We can talk more later this weekend."
I'm with Coach. He needs to earn his way back. If he calls out of the blue, wanting to come back -- tonite -- and you let him in, then what has changed??
Maybe next week, he can come back to the spare room. Maybe.
