And the ranting side of me says that if he has ANY possessions still in your house, put 'em all out in the yard, driveway (or garage at the very least)! Eleven dollars, my a$$!!
I disagree. CraigsList works real well, and can convert these unused belongings into handy holiday cash!
Puppy
^^^EVEN BETTER!!!^^^(Leave it to Puppy...)
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
I agree with everyone here. You need to call an atty and tell him/her it's urgent.
Stay strong. This is the part where we learn what Serenity is made of.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Ok I have contacted the legal department though it may be next week before they get back to me - That is the military for you and since I am not the military personnal, that is what I get -
Puppy ~ Thank you for the thread on Florida - I will be reading that as soon as I am off work. His current income status - He takes as much as he can before I can get to the bank. We were splitting 50/50 but apparently he needed more today then before -WTF ever.
Gardener ~ Let's just say he is lucky all of our stuff is in storage at the moment otherwise I may succumb to temptation and burn all his s**t.
Rocked ~ Prayers is all I need so thank you so much.
Sad ~ (((hugs)))
When I uncovered the lie earlier he has been feeding me for months, I felt sick all over again...
I go back to when this first started and he took great pleasure it seemed to rub it in my face, and now all of a sudden everything is so secretive...
I had some thoughts but removed them right away because I will not allow him to break me.
So I did the next best thing, (as opposed to confronting him and letting him know he hurt me again) I called his Mom and let her know what her son has done this time - Now remember she has been my supporter from day one and wants no part of the sicko and his wackiness.
I talked to her for a few, then went for a little walk out back - Kind of hard since I am at work but needed the fresh air. Cleared my head once again and decided that once legal gets back to me I won't stop with them until someone pushes the paperwork through. I have been waiting on this child support and it shouldn't take 10 months to get (the time frame they gave me)...
I came back into work and removed him for good from my cell phone plan. (Don't 2x4 me Puppy, I know I should have kept him off months ago but I was trying to be nice)...
His insurance has been cancelled as well - Not my responsibility to take care of it and since my name is no where on the car, so be it.
He will also be receiving the following words from me when he gets home and checks his email - Barring any changes you all think I need to make before sending.
H~
Since you no longer find it necessary to support your children financially, I no longer find it necessary to foot the bill for your affair. You need a new cell phone plan and car insurance.
Serenity~
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
