Now, here is my question....do I let him come back to the spare room or back to our room?
I would let him back when he does the work. Actions not words. My Greek FIL has a expression, "The camels nose is in the tent." Meaning you are not going to stop him from coming all the way in once his nose is in. Slow down, make sure the work is being done before you let your husband back in.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
