Yeah, our anniversary is in March...and we better have some direction by then! Last year's was a disaster - we decided to go out to dinner (not sure what we were celebrating - obviously wasn't our marriage), he was texting on his phone all night, OW called, it was just bad. But I had no clue about DBing, was still doing all the wrong thigs, so it really was a disaster waiting to happen! Blah.
But you still have a few weeks...take it one day at a time...see how Thanksgiving and the tubes go and just try to get a feel for his 'temperature'. I think it's going to be almost impossible to not expect anything out of him for your anniversary, but given the situation, it's always a possibility. Stay strong!
Hope you have a good weekend!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10