Her affair was only an EA but it was extreme enough that she would have slept with him. On the 27th I told her that I knew what she had been up to meaning, I told her I read her journal enough to know EVERYTHING. She was not happy to say the least. Of corse I got the "I knew you were looking at my stuff!" routine. Ans she did lie but I held my ground and told her that she could not lie anymore. The guy has been living in Italy since the end of August so the only contact they have had has been a few IM's and a couple phone calls. He made the decision to stay with his wife and kids instead of get involved any further with my wife. My wife is still convinced that she is leaving me because of ME and not HIM.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final