Originally Posted By: notagoodlistener
...Put your game face on and then go cry in your room when it's over because that what will happen and it's ok. Hold it togehter while you move your stuff in. It's an important moment.
Two very important points here.

You are a strong confident happy MAN and no woman is going to push you around. You will listen, empathize, validate, but NOT AGREE with her on things YOU DON'T AGREE WITH. Project this to your wife at all times.

Let out your emotions away from W. ANGER,SADNESS, etc. Vent here. Channel the energy into a workout. Cry in the shower. Go GAL and then cry in your car.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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