I've read your thread the past couple days. I don't post alot and have been piecing the past couple of weeks in my sitch so haven't been updating my thread but still read others because of the nuggets of wisdom on this site.
Listen to them. Go back home. I almost left my house and these folks turned me around and I ended up staying. It was one of the only things I did right.
Don't listen to what she says. They told you the reaction before you heard it from her. It's script. I was told the same things as you about a month ago (if that long). Don't give up yet. There will be a time when you may have to, but I don't think it is at this moment. You are at a crossroads.
She's the one breaking apart the family, not you. Don't let her twist it on you. Put your game face on and then go cry in your room when it's over because that what will happen and it's ok. Hold it togehter while you move your stuff in. It's an important moment.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009
