This stands out:

Originally Posted By: LiveToLearn
"now i know that will never work."


Quote:
"I am not interested in a relationship with someone cheating on me."


The way you say it to us is the way you should say it to her. This is a healthy boundary.

CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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