The mid lifers can't seem to get it together. It is funny how they cause us hell and then want US to fix it. I think you are handling your situation perfectly. It is time for your ex to grow up....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11