I have found out everything the hard way so I should know by now once I go digging, I am bound to find out something I didn't want to know 5 minutes ago - Serves me right I guess.
Serenity, it sounds like it was GOOD and WISE that you DID, considering what you've found out! You are looking out for the interests of your family!!! (when Schmuckface isn't).
So give yourself a break there.
You need to speak with your atty re: immediate temporary spousal support and child support. You have a very strong case.
