It's been a while since I posted I see. Strange around here, almost everyone I know has been out experiencing the ever-so-special H1N1 flu. Things are looking up though, last one in the family to fall, S17, is finally back in school today. About 1/2 of S6's class were out the last couple of weeks, so it hit pretty hard.
Getting back to my thread, I see I never responded to your post Gypsy.
I stopped responding to H, except for necessary information regarding our settlement agreement that my attorney drafted. He wanted to have a sit down to discuss what/why I'm asking for changes which I declined. He can respond in writing because, you're right;
@Gypsy="The term 'Crazy like a fox' comes to mind about your spouse. If he's great in business, successful negotiating is second nature. He is not your friend. He is using his skills against you."
I've become unavailable to him, & am still busy socially w/new guy, 6 months & prolly 60 dinners later. We really have a good time together. The more I tell him I'm not sure where I want this to go, the crazier he is about me, telling me I'm the perfect woman.
Amazing how one man can place such little value on you & another quite opposite. Really not that difficult to figure out though, now that I'm embracing the whole, "...you don't value/respect me, fine, your choice, I know plenty of others that will."
I am getting more e-mail, v-mail, excuses to have to see me by the day. He now has that worried look of the LBS. It seems he's in dis-belief that I'm moving forward, & happily.
Last night it was lots of lingering, sad looks & sighing @ drop off.
Doesn't effect me anymore.
Next court date is Jan. 5th, when we should have everything wrapped up. Tick, tick tick....
