I agree with Steve McQueen, and I said so a couple of days ago. "The next communication to your wife should be from your attorney", but give it a couple of 'no contact' weeks to make sure if you are ready for this step. By not, at least, making the effort to honour your request to talk, she is holding up her middle finger, saying "I will talk when I want." She is using the "I need space and time" nonsense to shut you up. I am dramatizing this somewhat, but she knows d*mn well what she's doing. Yes, MC's can also fall --- they are human, but they also have training and can use it for "good" or "evil" --- to help or manipulate.
Just saying. If she wants to get back with you, even a little, she would've made the effort to talk and not made you wait, write letters, repeated yourself for an audience.
Boy, she's good! Just saying!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim