Thanks Puppy! Will have to make sure he is by himself. But the card from the kids he will have already because D13 will be with him on Sat. So I bought something for her to give him from her and my S. Still show up?
Sure.
a) It's "The Right Thing to Do"; and
b) Opportunity to show your mysterious side.
c) it's not "pursuing" if you don't stay.
Think of it like that really COOL, TOTALLY FAMOUS guest that used to come out on Carson or Leno and -- rather than move from the chair to the couch when the next guest would come out -- had to leave early. Remember those? Johnny would say "Look, I know you have some place you have to be, so we really appreciate you stopping by . . . "
Guess I better make sure he is alone. No parents. I know that they are taking him to dinner on Sunday but I don't know what time. So maybe I will call and just ask if he is alone or not.
He is so afraid of what they would think. They took him in and then set him up in his apartment and are very pro-divorce, even though they claimed they loved me so much for the past 13yrs. You know how it is, sometimes parents blame the other person, well that's what is going on here with my sitch.
They have been a BIG problem with our separation. Thought they knew the answers cause they are divorced. It is H's step-mother and she controls all!!! Her daughter even said she is a control freak, and if things don't go her way look out.
They have been a BIG problem with our separation. Thought they knew the answers cause they are divorced. It is H's step-mother and she controls all!!! Her daughter even said she is a control freak, and if things don't go her way look out.
Wow, sounds eerily similar to my W's mom.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
They have been a BIG problem with our separation. Thought they knew the answers cause they are divorced. It is H's step-mother and she controls all!!! Her daughter even said she is a control freak, and if things don't go her way look out.
Do you want to be married to a man who is still so influenced by what his mother thinks???
Didn't find out how bad she was until this past year but yes, I know once he is back on his meds steady and home he will be like his old self and not care what they think.
