wow....that boundaries thing that puppy just defined is soo true..."have to take a short term hit in the nice department." this just happened to me when i told my hubby that i would now be part of an open marriage (both emotionally or physical) and i didn't know if i had done something wrong in terms of DBing but we shall see. he responded with an "ok" buthas tried to push my limits in some of his actions and became more distant. but i know that eevn if our marriage works this is one thing that i will not waver on and if he doesn't abide by that then i don't want him or the marriage!
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo